WHEN GOD’S HEART IS BROKEN(Part 1)……..Moyosore Teniola

 

There are so many unholy things that ladies do these days in the name of ‘love’…
If you are in love with a man, must you break God’s heart in the process? You might be wondering, can God’s heart be broken? Oh Yes! My sister, God’s heart can sure be broken and this happens when you as a daughter of God esteem other things above HIM.

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There are various accounts in the scriptures where it is recorded that God was sad or disappointed at HIS children because of what they indulged in.
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As a lady, how can you get God’s heart broken? Here is how: when you prefer or choose to go against the will of God because you claim to love your so called boyfriend or fiance. In other words, you love that man more than God. You ask me how again?

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Okay, let us look at some things that young women do today which break God’s heart:

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* COHABITING WITH A MAN THAT IS NOT YET YOUR HUSBAND

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In fact, this is so rampant these days…
Hello Ladies! Can you do me a favour? Open your eyes and read this. Because that man has agreed to marry you does not give him the right to use you as a wife or address you as such.

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When you move in with a man that has not paid your dowry, washing, cleaning, cooking and worst of it all, warming his bed, you are wasting your time, your destiny and your life. You are so cheap that he is utilizing what he has not paid for.

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Oh! You may say: ‘We have agreed to marry each other, our parents have met and in fact, the wedding day is set, bla bla bla…
Hello! Can you kindly open your eyes and read again?

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INTRODUCTION IS NOT MARRIAGE!

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As a matter of fact, some courtship still break after the so called ‘INTRODUCTION’. You want to dispute that? Come and ask me, I am a living testimony! You can read this article today because I stood my ground back then, and today, I am victorious, I am still standing!

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So, my Lady, if that man has not paid a price on you, and yet wants you to perform the responsibility of a fully wedded wife, please pack your bags now and leave! There is a time for everything. If indeed he is willing to marry you, he should be patient enough to wait till the wedding. Don’t throw yourself at him. If that man leaves you or threatens to do so because you made up your mind to please God, then he does not deserve you, a better man will come. A word is enough for the wise.

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* GET PREGNANT FIRST, THEN WE CAN MARRY.

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Another folly that is in vogue at the moment. Come, my Lady, are you a virtuous woman or some sort of laboratory equipment that is meant to perform an experiment?
If a man tells you to get pregnant for him before he marries you, tell him: ‘ wedding gown comes first before maternity gown’. If he does not agree, dump him! He doesn’t deserve you. Why must you break God’s heart because you want to have a wedding ring on your finger?

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Some men will say:How do I know if you are fertile? Well, If he does not trust you and trust God in your life for children after marriage, then he is not fit to be your husband. What if after you get pregnant, get married, then you have a miscarriage, and later unable to conceive for years, what will you do? And who will you blame? Are you the God that gives children? That same man will dump you and go after another woman. It is then that you will realize how great your folly is.

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Don’t be fooled. Use your head. If you start living with a man before marriage, he had sex with you countless times, you committed abortion several times in the process, why won’t that man test your fertility before he marries you? It’s such a pity that men are wise while women are careless.

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On the other hand, you may not have even slept with him before, but the man strongly insist that it is the tradition of his family that their women must get pregnant before marriage. Tell such a man that it is the commandment of the God you serve that ‘Marriage is honourable among all ONLY when the bed is undefiled’. If he cannot honor God’s word above his family tradition, he is still not fit to be your husband. Dump him, your own husband will come, the man that will respect you and honor God’s word.
Why will you throw yourself at a man when you are a jewel of inestimable value?

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Watch out for part 2

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I care for you ❤

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*Please share with sisters and friends.
Have a blessed day.

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Moyosore Teniola
Esteem Ladies Foundation

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