THE EVIL THAT MEN DO SERIES-ALL MEN CHEAT
Well, save your breath if you are the lovey-dovey type. You love your guy so much and can’t think of any reason to suspect that he cheats on you. Well, read on. Anyway, there are different levels of cheating. It is not about catching him with another girl in the hotel or restaurant. No, guys have developed sophisticated means whereby they can cheat right under your nose and in your presence [LMAO], but you will never suspect. No, it’s quite absurd, you can’t imagine it. Well, with blackberry phones where you can connect with facebook, twitter and BBM, your guy stays forever connected to his chain of gurls, well, take it or leave it. Even the best guy does things behind your back which he wouldn’t want you to know about.
Wait a minute, am not saying he doesn’t love you. Really, he does, no doubt about that but he can’t just change his habits, he can’t keep his eyes away. Why?? Because it boosts his ego that he has so many girls all dying for him. He cares about you greatly, takes you to the cinema, gives you attention, spend the whole of the day with you, he only goes to his house for a change of clothe. And you wonder when he has time for another girl. You might be in for a surprise, never under-estimate a guy. Methinks it is inbuilt in them to naturally pretend and manoeuvre things cleverly with so many girls.
Now, the issue is when your guy chats with a girl regularly at night even when you are there and he says ‘it’s nothing, she‘s just a colleague who just lost her boyfriend. Know that something is wrong. He sends kisses n hugs, bbm smiley as goodnight. He passwords his phone and read text messages in the lavatory. Please, look before you leap. Some crazy girl calls him by midnight to ask how he is faring and he picks up the phone, he defends every girl you point accusing fingers at. He tells you to grow up and stop being jealous cos its just a means of networking, please don’t keep quiet. Well, read below the story of a married man who confessed he has cheated on his wife once in their marriage.
I dated shewa while in secondary school but we lost contact thereafter. I dated a couple of girls after her; i had a weakness for fine girls especially figure eights. I took them to bed at will. Most times, one met another during visitations. It never meant anything. My present wife was one of them but she was special because she didn’t give up on me. Each time those girls came, she entertained and welcomed them.
I later turned a new leaf after getting married to her because i gave my life to Christ. I became committed to the things of God. I stopped playing with women. Our marriage was blessed with a son and ours was a happy home.
But one day, someone called me, she said she got my number from a friend. She was so excited. I told her i was now married. Yes, she was happily married too with three kids. It turned out to be shewa. Obviously, she was still living in the past. She started calling frequently, everyday like ten times [this is not an exaggeration] she liked me a lot then. She wanted us to continue from where we stopped. I rebuffed her vehemently. She got to the extent of calling me at night when my wife would be there.
So i told my wife about her. She got angry as shewa kept calling even in her presence. One night after shewa called, my wife called her husband telling him to talk to his wife. That his wife just called her husband. The man did not believe. He said his wife was right there seated beside him so how could she have called her husband. If she didn’t call to seek advice over her business, it would be over her family issues or what i thought about the shape of her breast. She always had one or more reason to call me and i was always responding.
So it went on to the extent that shewa would visit my workplace. One day, she came with a brand new car which she claimed she bought for me. I rejected it out rightly. To be honest, shewa was a very attractive woman even after three kids. Her breast still stood firm on her chest and she still retained that figure i so much liked. After about six months of chasing me, i finally lost the battle.
One day, she booked a hotel and we went there. We had fun. It happened twice before my eyes opened. My wife does not know. I stopped picking her calls. I begged God for forgiveness………………
Here is another story
I met tunde in my first year in school. He helped me with assignments. He was very brilliant. He was in his third year. I fell in love with him even though my friends didn’t like him. They said he was too ugly. I didn’t mind. I went to visit him regularly. He was a poor boy so i gave him cash occasionally. He could spend the whole day with me. We went everywhere together. He belonged to a club in school, LEO club. During his installation as the president, i spent over a hundred thousand naira; we booked hotel and venue, arranged for small chops and food. I did everything he wanted. He was my first so i believed in him. I had no reason to doubt him and didn’t believe everything people told me about him.
To cut a long story short, i received a call from a lady who claimed to have been impregnated by him. I didn’t believe it but i confronted him over it and he didn’t deny. My world was shattered. I landed in the hospital cos i took an over dose of paracetamol. I wanted to die. But God saved my life. Still, i loved him and was ready to go on with him. My friends thought i was mad but it was love. The girl gave birth to a baby boy, he said he didn’t want the mother but accepted the child.
By this time, he was already out of school and was serving at a bank in Lagos. I went to visit him. One day after he left for work, i discovered some feminine things in his room, several lingerie of other women.
I eventually left him. It was a waste of time.
Dear readers, if your boyfriend is the perfect or near perfect guy and you have had no reason to doubt him or you are sure he’s never cheated on you, drop your comment in the box below
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