Help, I Am Sinking!!!



Hello Ladies, it’s been a while. I have been waiting on God for the titles to give my messages for some time now… I thank God for HIS endless grace…
You may be wondering what sinking means and why such needs help. Well, you shall soon discover that by the time you get through with this write-up.

Sister A has always kept herself pure right from her teenage years up to the age of 22. She believed that upholding her moral standards and living right is all she needs to become a woman of great value and virtue. Being a virgin, she vowed never to give in to any man until her wedding night.

At 23, sister A fell in love with a young man who she thought was really in love with her but unfortunately, the guy was a player who was only trying to catch some fun. The man succeeded in having fun with her, an act that bruised her in the heart. The young man confessed to her that he was only out to explore how sweet a virgin is in bed but that he was disappointed, nothing so special about her and he will only keep their intercourse for the records…


She laid on her bed all night, wishing all that happened was a mere dream… she became a shadow of herself as she did almost everything absent mindedly. To her, she has broken her vows and equally disappointed God. She also believed God would never forgive her because she was silly enough to fall for a son of Belial… she stopped praying, stopped going to church and refused to forgive herself…

Sister B is a child of God. She doesn’t believe in keeping boyfriends for the fun of it. When she clocked 25, and graduated from school, she decided it was high time for her to have a relationship. The first man that ever won her heart was just a mere church goer, he wasn’t a serious Christian.


Sister B was so carried away by the euphoria of the so called love and after much pestering and begging, the man had sex with her, after which he called off the relationship claiming that he was getting married to someone else very soon. This left her in a state of trauma… weeks later, she discovered that she was pregnant! “How could this have happened to me? Lord have mercy, she cried”.

Sister C is a good girl, brought up in a Christian home, but along the line, she moved with friends who introduced her to Pornography, Premarital sex, use of contraceptives and then, abortion.


She went so deep in the ‘act’ that at the age of 24, she already had up to five abortions, she kept sinking, she just couldn’t help herself. It was after she graduated from school that she discovered that her womb had been infected by the series of abortions she had and her chances of having a child was 50/50. She cried bitterly all day and night, regretting all her past actions…


Now, my dear Esteemed ladies, My heart goes out to you if you fall into any of these categories or if your story is closely related…
Have you fallen into sin and you keep sinking in the bitterness of your past?

Are you passing through hard emotional struggles that you find so hard to share with any one around you?
Do you keep wetting your pillows all night with hot tears?

Are you being tormented because you have refused to forgive yourself of your past errors?

Wipe off your tears now my Lady because God is mindful of you.HE has sent me to you at this critical moment of your life…
And the message?

Coming soon in the concluding part

Have a grace filled week. I care about you.

***Please share with your female friends and sisters.

Teniola Moyosore
Esteem Ladies’ Foundation

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